You can't compare a personal family relationship to a professional business career.
I'll say it again.
Answer the following question:
If any of you put yourself in Bosh's shoes, would you, in all honesty, choose to re-sign with the Raps after having spent 7 seasons struggling to earn a playoff berth, given the numerous opportunities to play with SIGNIFICANTLY more talented teammates and have a legitimate chance to play in a NBA finals series and a realistic chance to win a championship?
Answer the question and say you still hate Bosh.